Surprises.....

I would like to share an event that happened to me this morning as I went to the local shopping centre..... I had just dropped my daughter at work and I decided to collect the dry cleaning and purchase a couple of items from the supermarket.

I pulled into the underground car park, where there is a tight bend which brings you to 2 boom gates. As I was not in any particular hurry, I decided to wait behind the car in front rather than doing the more difficult manoeuvre across to the other gate. It was moving fast enough.... then all of a sudden I heard this loud horn noise come from behind me.... I ignored it and moving up to the gate, the car behind, that had sounded their horn, was alongside me.

Aggressively, she stared at me across the way from her car and then the gates opened together. I gestured for her to move first. I was not buying into her drama and what I observed was interesting, many cars started pulling out in front of her slowing her path. As I parked up and walked up the ramp to the centre I saw the lady again. We looked at each other and then, what happened next surprised me – she said “I’m sorry”......

It is nice when we are surprised .....

Notice the signs......

The start of a new adventure... Through my reflections of what was a journey of discovery.

Finding balance, joy, happiness and Love in all situations. Challenges will always arrive and it is not that they come into your life but how you handle them when they do...

Affirmation:

I would like to take this opportunity to thank you being part of my journey.

Have a wonderful day...... finding your own wings.

Changing your thoughts from NEGATIVE to POSITIVE...

Since my diagnosis of Breast Cancer on the 10th May 2010, my mindset has been only positive. A conscious decision that “I am on a healing journey through to wellness” this has never changed, waived or something I have feared, if anything I have gotten stronger in my outlook. My determination to share with as many people as possible and give a different way of think that “Cancer is only a word, not a sentence”, has been a major part of this healing journey... first and foremost it is about Love. Just as the song says “All you need is love”, “Love will keep us together” there are countless titles about Love. LOVE , LOVE, LOVE , but it is not about others loving you, it is about SELF LOVE, that unconditional love that we find so difficult to do from a realistic/conditioning mind.

EGO ~ everything good outside of you. I would rather think as LOVE ~ limitless Om Vibrates Eternal.

Many people have been conditioned to think negative about themself ~ not good enough , don’t do well enough, haven’t gotten enough, and the list goes on..... I will let you into a little secret; I had that t-shirt too..... I bought into that illusion that has been feed to us as a society most of my life. Blame others, jealousy, envy, sadness, settle for mediocrity because that is all you deserve..... what a crock.!!! For the first time in my life I was going to be the captain of this ship...... yes, I needed people to support me, assist me, have opinions, take care of me, listen to me, hug me, but at the end of the day I was choosing to take responsibility for where and how this journey was going to play out. I was not prepared to be the victim any longer, not for anyone ~ especially not ME....

I didn’t buy into the “PITY PARTY”, my thoughts were take it elsewhere..... Yes, the EGO loves it, it thrives on it, because then it doesn’t have to stand up and take responsibility for the thoughts, actions and fears that it has generated all in the name of CONTROL... Control is powerful and used in the wrong way destroying of souls. Spirit wishes to EMPOWER you, not control.

What I believe is that LOVING who you are unconditionally, with no judgement. Speaking to yourself in a positive and nurturing way is going to assist you to be healthier, more content. If you are looking for happiness outside of you, you will not find it. To have happiness you must BE HAPPY it comes from within you.

Findingurwings......