Channeled Poem.....

Today, is a day I make changes.
Today, miracles will appear.
I feel the softness ALL around me.
Tears of joy will appear.
Release the floods of unsolved anger.
Surrender the pain and the guilt.
You are a child of Divine Power - LOVE, show us no doubt.

Channeled by Ros ~ Findingurwings.

The importance of healing LOVE to self.....

As human beings we do hold the power within us to heal our lives.   The journey that has taken me to discovering my own healing potential was breast cancer.  It was not this journey alone that was my wakeup call.  It was a culmination of many years work prior to this diagnoses which is often referred to “peeling away the layers of the onion”.  Letting go of FEAR opened the door to my faith and belief in me - “Unconditional self love”.

Just as a flower needs to be planted in nourishing soil, given manure and fertilizer, watered regularly, have sunshine to grow.  We as humans need to do this for us as well. Placing yourself first, not in a vein way, but loving and nurturing YOU, is not selfish.  Often people, who judge, have not been taught this or women often use this message that it is Selfish to make you feel guilty.

Receiving is the balance of Giving.

We live in a balance world.

So fill up the vessel that is YOU.

How can you give to others if you are an empty vessel?

The best example is the oxygen mask on a plane they always tell you to put on yours first and then assist others. 

This passage came from a message from DailyOM to my inbox.  “A self-healing day should address the vital needs of the self as a whole while directing healing energy where it is needed most. Solitude is an important part of the process as is the ability to take refuge in a space that is both beautiful and peaceful. Start your healing day by setting the intention that you are dedicating this time to healing yourself. Flowers, candlelight, incense, and music can guide our focus toward a more tranquil state.”

Healing is about care.  Listening to that inner guidance that says “go for a walk, have a nap, draw a picture, sit and take some time to do what brings a smile to your face and be still”.  Since my own healing, especially this past 7 weeks while recuperating after my breast reconstruction surgery, I need to give my body time to heal.  Take time out; sit in the park, read a book, enjoy a chat on the phone or go for a walk this has been a challenge. 

I have been impatient that it is not happening fast enough.  This is the “ego mind” trying to be in charge.  When I let go of those thoughts, I am reminded by friends and messages from the Universe this is a time for REST. 

Being OK with where I am now is important because there is time for the rest to happen.  For now it is time to practice stillness and BEING.

Ros Clarkson – Findingurwings 

One moment in time...

Sharing my experiences through my journey has assisted me to be well. How I have chosen to handled the challenges has opened other peoples minds to a different way of thinking or being.  Do they think the way they have always done or something different?  Insight and choice.

I have enjoyed meeting many people along the journey. Shelly Wilson is a friend.  We have completed 4 chats on blogtalkradio "Believe in believing".  Click on the link and get to know us a little better.  Sit back, grab a cuppa and enjoy.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/shellywilson/2011/12/06/life-enhancement-with-ros-and-shelly--segment-3

"Life is a roller coaster just got to ride it" ~

Find your wings and soar.

Ros

In memory of Nancy.....

I had the pleasure of meeting a wonderful patient Nancy during my radiation therapy back in 4th January - 11th February, 2011.  Her character : strong, loving, enjoyed life and enjoyed chatting with others.  A very independent 80 year old lady going through radiation treatment.  I believe she had rectal cancer.  The treatment was very wearing on her body and she was admitted to hospital a couple of times.  So on my daily treatments I would pop in to say "Hi" and have a laugh with her.  She enjoyed seeing my smiling face coming around the door.

I tried to contact Nancy and her daughter Suzanne by phone 3 times on different occasions, unfortunately didn't connect, could only leaving messages, but no call was returned.  At some point I when I thought about Nancy it ocured to me  she was not here with us any longer.

Yesterday, while sat having lunch with a friend at a local cafe a lady approached me "are you Ros" ~ yes, I replied.  She introduced herself "I am Nancy Irwin's daughter Suzanne" last time she had seen me I had a scarf to cover my bald head from the chemo.  She explained that she had received my calls, but it was right in the middle of her mum passing very quickly from a massive heart attack in August 2011.  She was doing so well after the cancer treatments, but she experienced a heart attack and as she was not the sort of woman to want to be a burden to people... she love life and was a good golf player.  I think she made peace and was ready to go home.

I now have closure and very fond memories of NANCY IRWIN. I asked Suzanne to keep in contact as she also have been through breast cancer completing treatment in 2010.  She is considering reconstruction so I can give some support in the future.  Life is interesting, the people we meet and the synchronicities we have.

Fly  Nancy and have fun with the angels..

Ros ~ findingurwings