THE MAYONNAISE JAR

I would like say "Thank you" to the people who have supported me and accept me for who I am. How very lucky I am to have a wonderful Husband, Daughters and Friends - you give me strength and courage to do what I love.

I received the story below, in an email this week and it gives clarity to what our life should be about, to me. I hope you find some inspiration in it also.

THE MAYONNAISE JAR

When things in your life seem, almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class
And had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - family,
children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.

The sand is everything else --The small stuff.

'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are important to you.

So...

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play With your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.

'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

Please share this with other "Golf Balls"

I hope you are Findingurwings ........ Roz

LISA WILLIAMS - MESSAGES FROM BEYOND

I have watched Lisa on Foxtel this past year, I have found her fascinating and interesting. I received a message via her message board from my Father-in-Law, Frank, who past last year. I have already purchased my ticket and am very excited about her coming in September. It is going to be a great day, as my daughter, Brittany will be returning home, after 5 months living in the UK. To receive a message from passed love ones would be the icing on the cake.




Tuesday, 29 September 2009 at 7:30 PM
State Theatre, Market Street, SYDNEY

Adrian Bohm, Mills Entertainment and W. Channel present
Lisa Williams - Messages From Beyond

Ever wonder what happens when you die? Do you yearn to hear from someone who recently passed?

Join TV’s top medium and clairvoyant Lisa Williams as she describes the transition into the spirit world. Returning to Australia after sold out shows in Sydney and Melbourne in March 2009.

Sharing her gift of communication with spirits from the ‘Other Side’, Lisa will reveal her knowledge about the ways we connect with and understand the messages our loved ones are trying to convey to us.

Like her show on W. Channel, she will demonstrate her astonishing mediumship abilities by performing live readings with members of the audience.


Prices:
All Tickets $89.90

Website:
http://www.lisawilliams.com/

TEFLON & VELCRO

It was my first day back at my job after 5 weeks on holiday. Four of those weeks I had been travelling the globe. David and I had seen Japan, Prague, Chezky Krumlov, Vienna and UK. Travelling is such a great opportunity to experience so many wonderful things, places and people. It is also a chance to experience challenges as you are in unfamiliar surroundings and can perceive this as a bad thing or could call it negative. I had difficulty in dealing with a couple of people in Prague, but I had to look within me to find what this was bring up as a feeling and how I can learn from it. Everything happens in our life for a reason. The mind reacts to a past experience or feelings of FEAR. It could be a reminder to let go, learn from it or testing if you actually got the lesson.

Past is History
Tomorrow a mystery
Today is a gift - THATS WHY THEY CALL IT THE PRESENT.



In Law of Attraction - (which is working all the time whether you understand it or not or whether you believe it or not). Thoughts + Feelings = Vibration (positive or negative).

You attract into your life by your thoughts and feelings thus bring vibration. Your words are also a big part in your attraction. Look at how you say things, listen to your sentences, do they give you a positive feeling or negative?. If it is a negative statement then turn it around to a positive statement and see how that feels!.

My friend rang me and after saying hello, she states "It is only me". Straight away I ask her to change that statement to "Hi its Alice. The energy has changed and is upbeat. It appears to be a small change but, it has an amazing effect on us both.

Michael Lossier author of "Law of Attraction - The Secret Behind The Secret" says to take 3 words out of your vocabulary "Don't, Not and No". There is a different vibration when you ask for, "WHAT YOU DO WANT" and stop complaining on what you "DON'T WANT".

Positive feeling - love, joy, fun, safe and excitement.
Negative feeling - scared, angry, sad, fearful, lonely and left out.

Give clarity to your desires ie I have decided that ............. - does that feel right? Then if the statement feels positive and you can feel it is right (giving a sense of joy etc), then you know you are on the right track. I find writing down my desires on a sheet of paper and asking the universe to bring about my wishes. Being grateful for what I already have. Also, have no attachment to how or when the desire will happen. Now BELIEVE, as if it has already happened. Give it a try, remember everything takes practice. Start with a small desire and work your way up.

Place the paper into a box and write the date on the top of the page. Go back to the paper in 3 months and again in 6 months and see how many desires have been answered.

So what about the Teflon & Velcro? Well I put the intention out that I was going to have a great day. Any negative people or comments were going to be Teflon on me - slide right off. The positive, loving feelings and comments were going to be Velcro -stick to me. I had a fabulous day, chatting about my holiday and received many nice comments of "welcome back". The day ended with a lovely family meal.


FINDINGURWINGS MEDITATION COURTYARD.

HAPPY MANIFESTING.......

I have my wellness room back since renovating the courtyards and returning from holiday. I would love to be able to assist friends in healing treatments.

I wish you love and peace in your daily life and hope you are Findingurwings ... Roz.

LIVE IN PEACE -

This morning the world woke to the news that two famous icon's have passed on.


Michael Jackson aged 50 (the King of Pop).
Farrah Fawcett aged 62 (Charlie's Angels).

Both had amazing life's, but still had their demons to fight and life experiences to have in this world. Michael's music has left a legacy for generations to enjoy with songs such as "Ben" (from his days with the Jackson 5) and then with his solo career "Billy Jean", "Thriller" and his Moonwalk dance. Thank you for your talent, you will be remember as an amazing entertainer.

Farrah Fawcett's famous poster back in 70s will always be remembered, especially by me, my brother Graham had it hang on his wardrobe door many years ago. Her time as Jill Munro in "Charlie's Angels" launched her acting career and then went onto making movies such as "Somebody Killed My Husband" (1978), "Sunburn" (1979) and "Burning Bed" (1984).

I had a favourite movie "Logan's Run" (1976) which starred Michael York and Jenny Agutter. Farrah also had a small part. The movie was a futuristic Si Fi where people lived in a society until the age of 30 and then they had to take their chances on reincarnation on Carousel. Some did not accept this reality and looked outside this rational thinking to escape to a place called Sanctuary. This idea fascinates me maybe that is why I am drawn to the life I have now.

Where ever their spirits and soul have taken them, I wish them love on their journey.

I hope they and you are findingurwings ........ Roz