WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU ARE ENTITLED TO?

Entitled/Entitlement: to give (a person or thing) a title, right, or claim to something.

This was one if not the biggest lesson I have understood to date. I attended a lecture by Caroline Myss at Darling Harbour, on the weekend. She asked the question: what are we entitled to? ……after many different people saying health, happiness, respect etc, there was a pause. The answer is NOTHING. We are entitled to NOTHING in this life.

The EGO has an attachment to the belief that it is entitled to “this or that” because it is always looking “what is in it for me”. Society or belief patterns tell us that if we have done things for someone then we are entitled to have it returned for us. Excuses – “I have worked hard, done the right thing (as society expects of us), raised my children, and been a good wife/husband” - then we deserve. Yes, we can have that, but we are not entitled to it. How many times I have heard someone say “if you give respect then you will be respected”? By whom? Why? This is an illusion. Why must others give back what you give out? It is your choice what you do for others and if you come from your heart/spirit than you will have the gift that you did something beautiful just because you choose to and the other person will also have a lovely feeling. Others around you will also be influenced by the gift. This is the energy of this world. We are all connected by this frequency. Everything you think and do send a vibration and it impacts all of us. If you work from the ego and have a scorecard running you will be disappointed.

I had an email sent to me the other day which was wonderful validation that this concept is truth. It was a woman being asked if her husband made her happy. She answers to the surprise of her husband and questioners ‘NO, he doesn’t make me HAPPY” she says ‘I AM HAPPY”. Happiness is because you choose to be…..not because you expect someone to give it to you.

My example for the ego was a story yesterday that a man who survived skin cancer was suing for million dollars from the company that supplied a sun bed and that no one had warned him of the dangers. This intrigued me where was the gratitude that he had survived this? What part did he play and what ownership did he accept? And then it screamed EGO – WHAT WAS IN IT FOR ME?

Every day I make a conscience decision to come from heart/spirit – “ask what I can do to make this day a wonderful day?” Today, I held a door open for a gentleman who was delivering packages. It may only take a smile or say good morning to a stranger, give a person some of your time and attention. A lot of small things add up to a wonderful vibration.

The other day I gave a lift to 2 people who live in my street. I had never spoken to them before, but knew they went to the same university as my daughter, they were grateful for the gesture. Give it try it costs you nothing in monetary value but I guarantee your heart will sing.

I hope you are findingurwings…..Ros

A GIFT TO HOLD CLOSE TO YOUR HEART.

MY JOURNEY – Ros Clarkson

How the Universe and I conquered my left breast abnormality in 2010/11 and I am grateful, joyful and very lucky to have wonderful health, family, friends and a very prosperous way of living. Thank you.

Hi, I am Ros Clarkson.

Age: 48

I enjoy being a daughter, sister, and mother of two beautiful girls, loving wife, friend, healer, spiritualist and more. I have been very lucky, especially over this past 4 years to learn so much. Given opportunities to pass on knowledge and assist others to create better ways of living. The challenges I now know are lessons to help teach me, or assist me in my work. They are not a punishment of me personally. I have learnt that our words are powerful – feelings are how the universe works. If you want more joy in your living, be happy, grateful and see the best in every moment, opportunity and situation. If you are negative you will get it in return. Treat yourself the way you want to be treated and give yourself permission to make mistakes. There is no right or wrong, good or bad – just challenges. We cannot control all that happens to us – stuff happens, but you do have control of how you handle these challenges (10% - 90% rule). May your life be blessed and filled with joy, laughter and love.

After 2 weeks of having slight pain in my left breast I decided to see my doctor Richard Janus on 7th May, he did feel something and to be safe we scheduled a check at the Breast Clinic in Sydney on 10th May. After many tests and procedures Dr Sue Fraser advised David (husband) and I that there was an abnormality (growth) under the nipple and that she recommended surgery (mastectomy) on return of our overseas holiday to Italy, France and UK which had been planned. More tests, scans, appointments we to be attended and I meet my surgeon Dr Warren Hargreaves during that week. We left on 19th May for our trip and a date to have surgery penciled in on my return. This also gave me a month to work with my holistic work to enjoy our trip, connect to my body and see if I was able to change this abnormality – as I believed it was mine and needed to release this from me. On my return I attended a scan on 25th June to make sure I required surgery. Unfortunately, the abnormality had grown and I had a mastectomy of the left breast and 17 lymph nodes removed on Friday 2nd July. It was successful and I felt well. As days progressed I felt strong and focused on my continuing health and wellbeing. During this time my daughter Avril was also involved in a bad car accident and was hospitalized during the same time with broken left leg, pelvis, ribs and bladder. It was a very busy week and we handled it very well under the circumstances.

It is one month on from surgery I am feeling well, strong and very positive. I have some moments of uncertainty and I am a little scared, but ready to take every day with positive and inspired thoughts. – THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

Since writing this I have seen progress in both our health. Avril is about to have her pelvic frame removed and in time will be freely moving. I had my first treatment of Chemotherapy last week and together with my belief systems, holistic tools and giving from heart, I am enjoying being very well.

I attended a workshop “You Can Do It” – by Hay House, in Sydney last weekend. I have answers to live my life by ......coming from SPIRIT.

I hope you are findingurwings……Ros

ROS - MY JOURNEY - awareness through breast cancer.


I have started the climb to the crest of the mountain, a way to go, but they say "The view from the top is amazing". I am carrying two glasses and a bottle of champagne - a celebration awaits me. You are all welcome to share in my success and health.

VERY REWARDING

On the 31st July we held our first healing afternoon in Forestville. Tracey, Kat and I had a lovely afternoon we met some lovely people. Tracey had the most clients with 3, she is very gifted physic and enjoys doing auro drawings/reading.

I had 2 clients and enjoyed giving a special blend of Reiki/Bars/Crystal energy treatments, which they were calm and very relaxed from the experience.

Katrina (who was 8 months pregnant) gave a lovely energy treatment to a very lucky lady.

Congratulations girls and thank you clients.