THE MEANING OF NEFER

On the weekend I went in search of a word that I could use as something a little different to close an email to a group of friends. I remembered a book that I had purchased on my trip to Perth earlier in the year. "The Handbook of Ancient Wisdom" by Cassandra Eason. It covers 3000 years of magic and folklore from Tribal Australia to Ancient Egypt and Native America. In the section called "Hieroglyphic Magic" I found the word Nefer, its meaning had a great feeling and expressed blessing I wished to share with others. It is as follows:-



NEFER: This means happiness, good fortune and beauty and is based on a musical instrument that resembled a primitive guitar. The perfect form and harmony of the instrument represented fulfilment and pleasure. When Nefer appears in a reading, what matters is your happiness, even if this is not counted as success in the world's terms. Concentrate on your own harmony and let your inner joy shine through. Enjoy each day and find something positive to rejoice in, however difficult the circumstances, is the message of Nefer.

Nefer to all and I hope you are findingurwings.....Ros

SENDING PRAYERS FOR OTHERS TO RETURN TO GOOD HEALTH.

Good morning to you all.

I would like to thank you for taking the time to read my place called - "Findingurwings". I created this blog as an extension of who I am. It is my desire to assist others in finding the joy, clarity and be the best they can be in their life. To have gratitude for everything you experience, what you see, do or have - however big or small. To understand that we are (if we choose) connected to all. We have the potential to do anything we set our hearts and minds to. We are only limited by our mind and beliefs.

We can have a world beyond our imagination.

I received a message from my friend Kerrie via an email. It was sent to her from a friend of a friend. It was an opportunity to ask for your help with healing and prayers for people who are going through difficult times. If you feel you are able and would like to help, much appreciated. I thank you for your love and ask if you know any others people that can also assist, please do so. As I said we are all connected. We are ONE.
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The letter:

Dear Everyone,

After just being deeply stirred by a documentary called "The Beautiful Truth" about Max Gerson's therapy and some of the causes and politics of cancer (in the U.S., almost all of which is directly applicable here) I have a special request. I know I don't stay in contact with a lot of you very often, and I'm sorry for suddenly asking for something, but this important request is not just for me, but for all of us. And for most of you who know exactly why the subject of current 'orthodox' cancer treatments is such a pointy one for me, I hope you'll really do this little thing, and inform other people you know who would really care.


On the 25Th of October, a very small select group of very nervous professional remedial massage therapists, trained extensively in the specifics of oncology massage (by a 2009 Australian of the Year nominee no less) are taking an historical step forward into what I was extremely dismayed to hear was the FIRST TIME for such a thing to be allowed in an Australian hospital.

These therapists are being PAYED (*Gasp!*) to contribute their time and energy to a trial taking place at (I believe) the Royal Prince Alfred Hospital in Sydney. They will have several weeks to demonstrate the benefits of performing gentle massage on these folks in their fragile state of health, in concurrence with their regular doses of toxic chemicals or
radiation treatment.

The kind of work they will be doing has already produced great results from patients in a voluntary trial run here in Australia who found about 20 mins of massage a day dramatically decreased their nausea and anxiety, significantly reduced pain (that aspect I can personally vouch for) thus the need for morphine (which kills a lot of people way before the cancer does), improved sleep, with almost all patients reporting their energy levels improving even after one treatment.

Add to that the very, very precious respite from being poked and prodded with needles, suppositories, thermometers etc, or receiving no caresses or hugs at all, to instead receive a daily dose of gentle, healing, safe touch and a moment of peace amidst what can be a mind-numbingly stressful time of facing one's mortality and unfinished business.... Yeah, this work must go on.

So my request is for your sincere prayers, positive thoughts, focused reiki and whatever other kickarse mojo you've got up your sleeves - to join me in dedicating some time over the coming days and weeks to focus on this group of people who are concentrating their energies on helping vulnerable people to heal, and on opening doors for more therapists and gentler therapies to become an integral part of our hospital system PERMANENTLY.

If the study is successful and sparks further trials and subsequent adoption of widespread treatment models, thousands of ill people who need this sort of care the most can choose what WILL prove to be a vital line of support in their recovery from cancer back into wellness.


And at least, there's that moment of experiencing a compassionate, nurturing connection with another human being who is not wearing a white uniform, who is neither overwhelmed by losing their loved one, nor afraid of attending to those who are close to death. And I'll bet that's one powerful way to tip the balance of momentum from degeneration back into hopefulness and true healing.

Thankyou so much for taking the time to read this and possibly pass it on where you feel okay about doing so. May you and I and the people you know form a great web of light to support all those who are contributing to a more sane *health care* system... And my eyes are twinkling now because I know many of those wonderful people are and will become my friends and have just read this! Hoorah!!

THE ONLY MOMENT YOU HAVE IS NOW – THIS MOMENT.

1. Nothing more important or healthier than a positive self image.

2. “3 R’s” – Respect for Self, Respect for Others and Responsibility for all your ACTIONS.

3. There is no good or bad, right or wrong, success or failures - ONLY challengers. It is all about the way we handle them.

4. Be willing to try something new, challenge your belief system to become more than you are right now.

5. It is ok to acknowledge you have negative thoughts/feelings. Don’t hold onto it. Surrender to that feeling and then “let it go” as it is an old belief and you have the power to create a new positive belief right now. Past is gone – you cannot change it. Learn from it or let it go.

SURRENDER – Many people take this as a sign of weakness. That they have failed, allowed the other person to be stronger. Surrendering is about you allowing yourself to release negative feelings or beliefs.

FORGIVENESS – This is not about the other person, it is about YOU. It is to allow you to release the negative charge that is within. It isn’t about the other person or the act that person did. It is about accepting what is and move on. That phrase “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” is so true. Embrace it, accept it and then move on.

I hope you are findingurwings ………………..Ros

FINDING THE SIGNS

A few weeks ago a had the opportunity to go to watch Lisa Williams- Medium/Clairvoyant live at the State Theatre, in Sydney. I have been interested in her work and watched her TV show on foxtel- "Life beyond the dead". So, when I was in the UK on holiday in June, I saw she was coming to Oz and I purchased tickets online.

I have been to John Edward 3 times and now Lisa - I secretly hope that my family will come through with a message via these 2 mediums, just as thousands of other people in the audience do, unfortunately there is no personal message to me, but that being said I do believe that signs have been given to me. As I sat waiting for the show to commence they were taped interviews with lisa and then music played that was from one of my favourite emails. I have never heard this song except for this inspiring email which I love to watch. To me that was their way of communicating, giving me a sign they had heard my prayers. It was their way of coming through. Then I had 2 empty chairs and said that was for my in-laws Wynne & Frank, next thing 2 people sat down when introduced ourselves and they past me a glass of wine to enjoy with them....that was cool.

As lisa says at the introduction of her readings it is not just a message for the family, but others will also have some awareness through that reading. So listen to the messages and one may radiate to you. This is the way we are all connected and a way of passing on what will help the most for as many people at one time.

Through my work over the past year and my awakening to life beyond what we see. I know we are all born with this amazing gift of clairvoyance and connection to spirit. It is up to us to develop and strengthen this ability. Just an athlete or ballerina's has to dedicate her/his life to stretching and building their bodies to be the best they can be, so too does the spiritually aware person. Most of all we are all connected to spirit and your love ones are with you always, sometimes you feel them, smell something that reminds you of them. Talk to them, ask for help, remember that their love for you is there with you always.

NOTICE THE SIGNS - These could be coins, feathers, butterflies, birds. I have noticed dragonflies. Rainbows are also a great sign, just as I mentioned in a previous article. I have found gold coins during the week and even been given gifts of coffee on 5 occasions this past week. I am being looked after and guided and I will trust ALL IS WELL. The important thing is for you to ASK for a signs and be observant/open to seeing it, then THANK them when you do see the sign. This will create the opportunity for YOU to connection with the world beyond what you see. It could be your angels, loved ones that have passed, God or universe whatever it is that feels right for you.

Believe that they are all around and want to help you.

Have a wonderful day and hope you are findingurwings........ Ros.