Allowing ......

Are you confused as to what you are supposed to do, how to feel, what to release, who to be around, who not to be around, what rituals work, what rituals don't? The list is endless.

In this ever increasing bombardment of living the ‘perfect life’ are you overwhelmed?

It really is about where you are ..... as far as I know no one has a "magic pill" that takes FEAR, pain, hurt, anxiety or blame away easily. They also have not created the "happiness pill" that has this earth’s population shaking hands, being excepting of each other, caring, nurturing a spirit of team work ~ I will cheer the day we have a truly wonderful world as many speak of in the spiritual way. But I have a feeling that is a Utopian idea and it’s called heaven.

Until then we do our best to allow the one person you have an influence of ~ YOU.... and only. You can make a difference in your own life, right here, right now. Do what feels right, speak up and do not gag on your own feelings or words.

I know I get confused. I am not going to tell you I have all the answers, I don't. I have not achieved total human perfection but I do enjoy giving it a kick ass try and I also don't believe that there is human perfection, only contentment. I am doing the best I can on any given day. Every day is new -  thinking, putting into action or accepting being. I am a whole new ME. I am much kinder to me and that in itself is a huge step forward. I think I am doing a doctorate on the topic, but it continues to evolve.

I do wonder why we are not taught as children to LOVE who we are and taught conflict resolution.

I could give you the appearance that I have all my shit worked out and because of that I can give you all the answers too. I have worked out a lot of stuff and have become a more enlightened person, loving and. Caring. What I want to do is make a difference in this world for the things I have had to learn, for the experiences and pain I had over my life.

I am making it through. We all have walked different journeys and we have knowledge to share on our subjects. To me being true to me and authentic is so much more important than projecting to the world a bullshit story of everything is perfect. We have emotions and we suppress them giving more stuffing down into our gut.

If I could ask you to honour them, give them a voice and allow yourself to look at them in the face and see you don't have to hold on to them .... let them go with love.

I am so grateful for life. So believe in yourself and live life the best way you can today.  

Love and gratitude Ros.